How to be an ally when someone appears to have lost weight
BY BEVIN BRANLANDINGHAM QueerFatFemme Our culture normalizes talking about bodies all the time. There is especially a lot of value placed on weight gain or loss. Turn on a television and just listen to...
View ArticleHow private are your Facebook posts?
BY BEVIN BRANLANDINGHAM QueerFatFemme I have noticed in the last few months that some of my friends have been posting to Facebook and unknowingly making those posts public. I have wondered if those...
View ArticleGetting femme visibility on the streets
Photo via QueerFatFemme.com BY BEVIN BRANLANDINGHAM QueerFatFemme This weekend I was in front of the camera for a lifestyle shoot for the New York Toy Collective (more on their products and a behind...
View ArticleHow to make the best use of your wing man / person / ma’am
(Photo by Amos Mac) BY BEVIN BRANLANDINGHAM QueerFatFemme A few months ago my dear friend Fannon was visiting town and we were out at a dance party. Searching for a better DJ, we decided to bounce to a...
View ArticleLearning to not stress out about my fertility
Photo via QueerFatFemme.com BY BEVIN BRANLANDINGHAM QueerFatFemme About a year ago, my weekend plans to go away were torn asunder by an emergency vet visit. I got home from the gym and my cat ALF was...
View ArticleWays I’m embracing my imperfect meditation practice
Photo via QueerFatFemme.com BY BEVIN BRANLANDINGHAM QueerFatFemme People are always going on and on about the physical, mental, emotional and spiritual health benefits of a meditation practice. I’ve...
View ArticleWays to tell a queer femme is queer
BY BEVIN BRANLANDINGHAM QueerFatFemme There’s been a lot of buzz around the internets lately about Femme identity. I am unsure where the controversy began but I think it had something to do with this...
View ArticleI believe in butch* abundance
(Photo by Amos Mac) BY BEVIN BRANLANDINGHAM QueerFatFemme During the Femme Family Heart Share Brunch on Femme Competition and Femme Mutual Aid, we were talking about the ways in which Femmes sometimes...
View ArticleFive ways to begin to love your body right now
Photo via QueerFatFemme.com BY BEVIN BRANLANDINGHAM QueerFatFemme In my interview with Amy McDonald at the Happy Healthy Lesbian Telesummit, she asked me for five tips people can employ to love their...
View ArticleFive things I do every winter to avoid seasonal depression
BY BEVIN BRANLANDINGHAM QueerFatFemme When I was a teenager living in sunny Northern California I completely resented the sunlight for being so cheerful. I was a surly, depressed and unhappy teenager...
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